Have you ever wondered why marriage feels so hard sometimes? You love your spouse. You’re committed to building a God-honoring relationship. But lately, you’ve felt stuck—caught in the same frustrating arguments, feeling distant, or just overwhelmed by the weight of it all. Maybe you’ve even sought out Christian marriage advice, hoping for answers, only to […]

“I don’t think we can fix this unless he changes first.” I told myself this lie over and over again. Every time another argument ended in silence, every time I felt invisible, every time the distance between us grew wider, I clung to the belief that if he just tried harder, cared more, or became […]

Is this it? It’s the question that haunts the midnight hours.  When you’re staring at the ceiling, wondering how much longer you can hang on—when prayers feel empty and love feels distant—it’s easy to wonder if God has walked away.   But let me remind you of something life-changing:   God doesn’t abandon what He builds.  Healing Your […]

Toxic Beliefs Exposed Let’s be honest You didn’t expect marriage to feel this lonely.   You’re doing all the “right” things—praying, showing up, pushing through—but the walls between you keep getting higher.   And maybe, just maybe, you’ve started to wonder…   “Is this as good as it gets?”   I get it—because I’ve been there.   But here’s what […]

The Failed Counseling Session That Almost Made Me Quit Counseling I failed. Not just a small slip-up. Not a “learning curve” moment. I completely bombed a counseling session—and it shook me to my core. This isn’t just my job—it’s my calling. And I failed. In the early days of my career about 11 years ago, […]

File this one under “An Ounce of Prevention Is Worth a Pound of Cure.” Significant changes are unfolding, and you might be feeling a knot in your stomach. Recent studies reveal that rising divorce rates among Christians mirror those of the general population. It’s a startling revelation that could profoundly impact your marriage. So, it’s […]

The Truth No One Talks About Are you sitting in the aftermath of betrayal and asking yourself—“Can my marriage actually heal from this?”   You’re not alone.   This is the #1 question I get asked by couples who feel like the damage is too deep and the trust is too shattered to repair.    Here’s what […]

You may be wondering what Christian-based couples counseling really is. And, I know you’re no stranger to the idea of renewing your marriage. Maybe you’ve read books, prayed endlessly, or even tried hashing things out late into the night. But let’s be honest—sometimes, even when you’ve invested deeply in your relationship, it feels like you’re […]

To the Couple in Crisis: You’re a Christian couple in crisis and you’ve found yourselves drowning in a sea of hurt, silence, and broken trust. Questions like, “How did we get here?, Is there even hope for us anymore?, Will Christian couples counseling even work for us?” echoes in your hearts, leaving you feeling alone, […]

Betrayal feels like an earthquake shaking the very foundation of your marriage. Whether it’s infidelity, broken promises, or a deep wound from something you thought would never happen, the pain can be overwhelming. You’re not just grieving what was lost—you’re standing at the crossroads, wondering if your relationship can ever be whole again. But take […]