If betrayal has touched your marriage—porn use, infidelity, secret accounts, hidden conversations—your body and mind can feel like they’re on alert all the time. You may be functioning on the outside while your insides are so loud, life becomes overwhelming.
This shop is for Christian wives and couples who want tools that take betrayal trauma seriously and keep faith in Jesus handled with care and honesty.
This is for ongoing support when you need something to come back to regularly. It includes a chat-based tool in my voice and other included guides, so you have support in between sessions and conversations.
from $37 per month
Trigger Triage Circle (membership)
These guides are for intrusive thoughts and triggers. You’ll get practical exercises and video walk-throughs so you can work with what’s happening in your body and mind without spiraling.
$47
Anchor Method Guides
When your mind won’t stop replaying the Betrayal
Intrusive thoughts. Mental movies. Random moments that hit you out of nowhere. You keep getting pulled back into what you saw or discovered.
$9.97
This toolkit helps you have hard conversations after betrayal with more structure and less spinning. It’s built to support honest talk about impact, boundaries, and follow-through—without getting pulled into the same cycle every time.
You try to bring the betrayal up. He gets defensive. You end up feeling blamed, brushed off, or like you’re the problem for still hurting.
Trust Talk Toolkit
When talking about the betrayal turns into defensiveness or shutdown
This starts with an assessment of your current safety & trust level. It helps you put language to where things actually stand and what safety would need to include if trust is going to be rebuilt..
$27
Rebuild Safety and Trust First
When you need to know what safety & trust look like right now
Many Christian women feel stuck because safety & trust are being discussed like they're just feelings that come when time goes by, not something that can be measured by behavior. You need something more concrete than “Just try to trust me.”
$19
This guide is for the husband who broke trust and needs clear direction on what responsibility looks like early on—without excuses, image management, and pushing his wife to “get over it.”
Some couples can’t move forward because the betrayed spouse is carrying the whole process. Real repair requires real ownership..
If You Broke Trust, Here’s Where You Start (for husbands)
When He broke Trust and Needs a Starting Point
Note and disclaimer:
These resources are for support and education. They don’t replace therapy.
If you’re in Tennessee or Alabama, you can work with me in therapy. If you’re outside those states, you can still use these tools alongside therapy where you live.
These resources don’t create a therapist–client relationship.
