If you’re reading this, you might be lying in bed staring at the ceiling, sitting at your work computer unable to focus, or standing in the bathroom scrolling through messages you wish you’d never seen. Your mind keeps spinning with what was said, what was found, and what it means for your life with this man you're married to and with God..
Walking with Christian Wives in Betrayal Trauma
You've discovered infidelity in your marriage,
There's been porn use, affairs, secret addictions, or financial deception.
You can't shake the suspicion that your husband has engaged in secret online relationships,and patterns of deceptive behavior.
When you bring up your concerns, he gas lights you, calls you crazy, and insists that you've got nothing to worry about despite undeniable evidence.
This is the reality you're carrying, and it makes sense that you feel shaken in the most intimate parts of your life.
If you're wondering what help would even look like.
- “Does what happened even count as betrayal?”
- “What does God expect of me right now?”
- “How am I supposed to sit through work, errands, church, and family when my mind won’t stop?”
- “If I tell someone everything, will they think I’m overreacting?”
You might be sorting laundry, answering emails,or making dinner while those questions run in the background. On the outside, life goes on. Inside, it feels like everything has been shattered and you’re the only one who can see it.
- Tell the story of what happened, piece by piece
- Notice what your body does when certain memories or topics come up
- See how his choices have shown up over time and what that’s done to you
- Name what you need around truth-telling, phones and screens, and day-to-day contact
- Shape what you want to say and ask in the next hard conversation.
When betrayal breaks into your life, it doesn’t stay in one moment. You may feel jumpy, angry, numb, or all three in the same afternoon. Your mind keeps circling what you found and what it means for your marriage, your future, and your life with God. It can be hard to focus on everyday things like meals, work, or church when that story is running in the background.
When you start telling the whole story
My role is to keep the space grounded and clear enough so you can think and feel at the same time, and to make choices from truth.
We move at a pace that lets your heart and body catch up with what you’ve learned. There’s room for shock, anger, grief, and confusion. and to change your mind as more truth comes into view.
"We move at a pace that lets your heart and body catch up with what you’ve learned."
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Therapy for Christian Couples in Betrayal Trauma
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