The Overthinking Won’t Stop  The moment you found out, everything changed. The memories, the lies, the “I love yous” that now feel like a joke—it all replays in your mind, over and over. You want to know how to find peace after being cheated on, but your mind won’t let go of the obsessive thoughts […]

Can I be real with you? My marriage felt shattered. Not cracked—shattered. The kind of brokenness where you wonder, Can this even be fixed? The arguments had worn us down, the silence between us was deafening, and the love that once came so easily felt impossibly out of reach. I prayed desperate prayers—raw, ugly ones. […]

“I don’t think we can fix this unless he changes first.” I told myself this lie over and over again. Every time another argument ended in silence, every time I felt invisible, every time the distance between us grew wider, I clung to the belief that if he just tried harder, cared more, or became […]

Is this it? It’s the question that haunts the midnight hours.  When you’re staring at the ceiling, wondering how much longer you can hang on—when prayers feel empty and love feels distant—it’s easy to wonder if God has walked away.   But let me remind you of something life-changing:   God doesn’t abandon what He builds.  Healing Your […]

The Truth No One Talks About Are you sitting in the aftermath of betrayal and asking yourself—“Can my marriage actually heal from this?”   You’re not alone.   This is the #1 question I get asked by couples who feel like the damage is too deep and the trust is too shattered to repair.    Here’s what […]

The earth-shattering experience of betrayal trauma in Marriage can leave you feeling as if you’ve been thrust into an emotional hurricane. If you’re wrestling with the results of spousal betrayal trauma from affairs or infidelity, know that you’re not alone in this stormy journey. The pain you’re experiencing is real, valid, and shared by many […]