Choosing someone to walk with you in recovery from betrayal matters. You’re not looking for just general “marriage counseling.” You’re looking for someone who can sit with you in the pain of betrayal, secrecy, and your faith in Jesus without minimizing or shying away from any of it.
When we work together, you can expect me to:
From there, we decide whether it's wise to start with individual work for you or work with you and your husband together.
- Take betrayal seriously, not treat it like general “marriage problems.”
- Talk plainly about porn, affairs, and secrecy without flinching.
- Pay attention to how this is hitting your body, your emotions, and your faith.
- Name gaslighting, minimizing, and spiritual spin when they show up.
- Use Scripture in ways that line up with Christ’s character, not to rush you or excuse sin.
- Keep your safety and your walk with Jesus at the center of our decisions about what to work on.
From there, we decide whether it's wise to start with individual work for you or work with you and your husband together.
What You Can Expect From Me
In individual therapy, we will:
- Lay out what you’ve found and how it’s affecting you, without softening it.
- Look at behavior over time so you can see patterns instead of treating this like one isolated event.
- Separate his responsibility from the work that’s actually yours.
- Work with intrusive, self-blaming thoughts in light of Scripture and what’s real.
- Plan how to respond when he minimizes, gets defensive, or spins the story.
- Build boundaries that match his behavior, not just his apologies.
- Name spiritual messages that have left you pressured or unsafe and sort out what aligns with Christ’s heart for you.
For the wife who needs a private space to tell the truth, think clearly, and make wise decisions about her safety, boundaries, and future in this marriage while staying rooted in Christ.
This is often what’s going on when a Christian woman who's experienced betrayal reaches out for individual therapy:
This is often what’s going on when a Christian woman who's experienced betrayal reaches out for individual therapy:
- You’ve discovered porn use, an emotional or physical affair, or other sexual secrets.
- You’re checking devices, timelines, or stories because something doesn’t add up.
- Conversations leave you feeling blamed, “too sensitive,” or more confused.
- You’re trying to figure out if this is a one-time break or a pattern.
- You’re trying to sort out how to honor God when what you’re living through doesn’t match the messages you’ve heard in church about forgiveness, marriage, and divorce.
Individual Therapy for Christian Wives After Betrayal
What We Focus On
Individual sessions are 60 minutes on Zoom video or a phone call.
Current fees:
You can meet with me one session at a time, or you can choose a 4 or 8-session package if you know you want regular space to work through betrayal, boundaries, and how this is touching your walk with Christ and your day-to-day life.
Packages give us a dedicated block of time to work together, and we’ll keep checking in on whether the pace and focus are serving you. I’ll also give you a Good Faith Estimate so you have a clear and written picture of your therapy plan and the cost.
Current fees:
- Single individual therapy session: $220
- 4-session individual therapy package: $880 total
- 8-session individual therapy package: $1,760 total
You can meet with me one session at a time, or you can choose a 4 or 8-session package if you know you want regular space to work through betrayal, boundaries, and how this is touching your walk with Christ and your day-to-day life.
Packages give us a dedicated block of time to work together, and we’ll keep checking in on whether the pace and focus are serving you. I’ll also give you a Good Faith Estimate so you have a clear and written picture of your therapy plan and the cost.
Fees and Packages for Individual Therapy
Betrayal brings a flood of questions about truth, repentance, safety, trust, and what your faith in Jesus means in the middle of it. When porn use, an affair, or hidden sexual behavior comes out, couples often find that the same topics keep resurfacing and the same reactions keep showing up. Even sincere conversations can end with defensiveness, shutdown, or more confusion.
Marriage therapy after betrayal is where we work on honesty, transparency, boundaries, consistency in actions and the real impact this has had on both of you.
Couples reach out for help when:
Marriage therapy after betrayal is where we work on honesty, transparency, boundaries, consistency in actions and the real impact this has had on both of you.
Couples reach out for help when:
- Porn use, an emotional affair, a physical affair, or ongoing secrecy has come to light.
- The betrayed spouse is still hurting and still needs answers, and that isn’t going away.
- The spouse who betrayed trust is willing to be fully honest and take responsibility.
- Conversations about what happened keep turning into shutdown, defensiveness, blame, or avoidance.
- Your Christian faith matters, and you want Scripture handled with care while reality stays on the table.
Marriage Therapy After Betrayal for Christian Couples
Once betrayal is out in the open, couples often want to fix communication first. The bigger issue is that trust can’t rebuild on half-truths, vague apologies, or unclear expectations.
That’s why we focus on things like:
That’s why we focus on things like:
- Truth that stays consistent. We get specific about what happened and what’s known so the betrayed spouse isn’t living in guesses or shifting stories.
- Ownership you can recognize. Responsibility gets named plainly—without minimizing, blaming, or spinning it back on her.
- Transparency that’s workable. Agreements around access, devices, accountability, and follow-through get clear enough to live out at home.
- Boundaries that protect safety. Limits are put in place to reduce ongoing harm and protect emotional and spiritual safety.
- Talk that stays honest. We work with the patterns that show up when you try—defensiveness, shutdown, escalation, avoidance—and practice different ways of engaging.
- Faith treated with respect. Prayer can be included when you ask. Scripture can be brought in carefully. Space is also made for the hard spiritual pieces: grief, anger, confusion, and what betrayal has done to how you relate to God.
What We Focus On
Cost and Package Options for Marriage Therapy After Betrayal
Current Fees and Package Options:
Paying session-by-session works well for couples who want flexibility. A package works well when you want a specific block of time to stay engaged with therapeutic work.
A 4-session package is often chosen to:
An 8-session package is often chosen to:
A Good Faith Estimate is provided so you have a clear and written picture of your marriage therapy plan and the cost.
If you’d like to talk more, schedule a paid consultation through the button below. We’ll use that time for you to share a bit of your story, ask questions, and see if working together is a good fit.
- Couples session (60 minutes): $250
- 4-session couples package: $1,000 total
- 8-session couples package: $2,000 total
Paying session-by-session works well for couples who want flexibility. A package works well when you want a specific block of time to stay engaged with therapeutic work.
A 4-session package is often chosen to:
- Get out of the repeating conversation loop
- Put clear agreements in place around transparency and boundaries
- Begin tracking follow-through in a way that reduces confusion
An 8-session package is often chosen to:
- Work through recurring triggers and the ongoing impact of betrayal
- Practice repair conversations until they hold up at home
- Keep accountability and trust-building tied to lived choices, not words
A Good Faith Estimate is provided so you have a clear and written picture of your marriage therapy plan and the cost.
If you’d like to talk more, schedule a paid consultation through the button below. We’ll use that time for you to share a bit of your story, ask questions, and see if working together is a good fit.
