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When the pain of betrayal shakes the very foundation of your marriage, it can feel as though everything is crumbling. Trust, once the cornerstone of your relationship, may now seem shattered beyond repair. But here’s a truth that will reignite your hope: healing is possible. With the guidance of the best Christian marriage counselor near you, you and your spouse can take those first steps toward restoration, healing, and wholeness, anchored in faith.

I understand that betrayal trauma is more than just a temporary hurt. It cuts deep into the heart, leaving lasting emotional and spiritual wounds. But as Christian marriage counselor, I also believe that God’s grace can restore even the most broken relationships. Whether you’re struggling with infidelity, emotional betrayal, or any other form of deep relational pain, I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing.

I invite you to reach out today and take that next step towards recovery. Whether you’re seeking individual counseling, couples’ therapy, or resources for ongoing healing, I’m here for you.

Why Choose Christian Marriage Counseling?

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Marriage is a sacred covenant, designed by God to be a reflection of His love for us. Yet, even in the strongest of relationships, moments of deep pain and betrayal can occur. These moments can leave both partners feeling isolated, angry, and hopeless. However, with the help of a Christian marriage counselor, you don’t have to walk this difficult road alone.

Christian counseling offers something unique: a faith-centered approach that integrates Biblical truths with evidence-based therapeutic practices. I believe that true healing comes when both spiritual and emotional needs are met. In addressing the root causes of betrayal trauma, I rely on God’s Word to guide the healing process, while also employing proven counseling techniques to foster emotional repair.

Healing After Betrayal: Why Christian Marriage Counseling Brings True Restoration

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Here are just a few of the reasons why Christian marriage counseling is the best choice for couples recovering from betrayal:

Faith at the Center: I incorporate prayer, scripture, and Christian values, and the most effective and researched therapy models throughout the process, ensuring that every step aligns with your faith and leads to the transformation you and your spouse are hoping for.

Restoration, Not Just Recovery: My goal is not merely to help you survive betrayal, but to help you and your spouse restore the deep connection God intended for your marriage.

Holistic Approach: I believe that true healing happens when we address the mind, body, and spirit. Counseling sessions are designed to help you process emotional pain, reconnect spiritually, and rebuild trust.

What Is Betrayal Trauma?

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Betrayal trauma occurs when trust is broken in a relationship, often through acts of infidelity, secrecy, or emotional dishonesty. For Christian couples, betrayal trauma can feel especially heavy, as it not only damages the marital relationship but also shakes one’s faith in God’s plan for their union.

You might be experiencing:

  • Feelings of shock, disbelief, or numbness after discovering betrayal.

  • Intense sadness, anger, or anxiety about the future of your marriage.

  • Difficulty trusting your spouse, or even trusting others outside of your marriage.

  • A loss of connection with God, feeling as though your prayers go unheard.

While these emotions are natural, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to bear them alone. The best Christian marriage counselor near you specializes in betrayal trauma and is equipped to help you navigate this complex journey.

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“The Lord is close to those who have suffered disappointment.
He saves those who are discouraged.”— Psalm 34:18

How I can help you

Here’s how I approach counseling for couples in recovery from betrayal trauma:

I take a personalized approach to healing, recognizing that no two marriages are the same. We will  focus on addressing your unique needs, using a blend of Biblical wisdom and therapeutic methods to bring about real and lasting transformation.

Creating a Safe Space for Healing

The first step in counseling is creating a safe and compassionate environment where both partners can express their feelings without fear of judgment or further hurt. Our Christian counselors are committed to providing a confidential and supportive space for you to begin the healing process.

Rebuilding Trust Through Open Communication

Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage, and when betrayal occurs, trust is often the first casualty. We will guide you through honest and open conversations, helping you both learn to communicate effectively, rebuild trust, and understand each other’s needs on a deeper level.


Addressing the Root Causes of Betrayal

Betrayal doesn’t happen in a vacuum. There are often deeper issues at play, such as unresolved trauma, unmet emotional needs, or spiritual disconnection. We will work together to identify these root causes and address them in a healthy and productive way, ensuring that true healing can occur.

Strengthening Your Spiritual Connection

As a Christian Therapist, I believe that your most important relationship is with God and when you have that relationship right, then your marriage has a fighting chance. In our sessions, we will incorporate faith-based practices, such as prayer, scripture study, and spiritual reflection, to help you both grow closer to God and to each other.

Empowering You to Forgive and Move Forward

Forgiveness is one of the hardest, yet most necessary steps in the healing process. It doesn’t mean forgetting the pain or excusing the betrayal, but rather, releasing the burden of anger and bitterness so that healing can begin. I will guide you through this difficult process, helping you understand what true, Biblical forgiveness looks like and how it can set you free to move forward in your marriage.



FAQs

How do I know if Christian marriage counseling is right for us?

If you and your spouse are struggling to heal from betrayal and you desire a faith-centered approach to restoration, Christian marriage counseling may be exactly what you need. Our focus on Biblical principles combined with professional counseling techniques allows us to address both the emotional and spiritual aspects of recovery.

What can we expect in a session?  

Each session is designed to fit your unique journey. We’ll discuss topics like forgiveness, rebuilding trust, emotional openness, and biblical principles for growth. We’re here to support your path to healing, every step of the way.


Can you help even if we’ve been struggling for years?

Absolutely. Betrayal trauma can leave deep scars, and for many couples, the pain has been carried for years. I’m equipped to meet you where you are, regardless of how long you’ve been struggling. It’s never too late to seek healing.

How can we know if we’re ready? 

If you’re both committed to facing your struggles, to being honest and accountable, and to inviting God into your healing process, Christian marriage counseling is the next step. Start with a consultation to see how our faith-based approach can support you.


What if only one of us is ready for counseling?

It’s not uncommon for one spouse to be more eager for counseling than the other. We encourage both partners to attend, as healing is most effective when both are engaged in the process. However, we are also able to work with individuals who are ready to begin their healing journey, even if their spouse isn’t quite there yet.

How can we schedule our first appointment?

I’ve made the process simple and straightforward. To request an appointment, fill out the contact form, send an email to therapy@rhondamariestalblmft.com, give us a call, or send a text. Phone number is: 901-206-2539. Also, I only offer virtual/online therapy so you can attend your sessions from the comfort of your home.

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Phone Number: 901-206-2539

Email: therapy@rhondamariestalblmft.com 

Virtual Sessions Only

(Secure Zoom Link will be sent in appointment reminders and when you book your appointment).